19.11.24 Tarot & Spirit Guided Message of the day: The Lovers


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So sorry for a few quiet days (with no cards of the day) I'm so busy right now but will do my best to share a card with you most days of the week (if not all!) 


The Lovers card has shown up today. This card is not simply about romance, though love may play a role. It’s about choice, alignment, and the call to honour what truly resonates with your soul. Right now, the universe is asking you to examine your connections—both to others and to yourself—and consider where harmony exists and where it does not.

In this moment, you may feel pulled in two directions. Perhaps you are navigating a decision that challenges your sense of self or your values. The Lovers remind you that your choices define your path and that clarity arises when you make decisions from the heart. What do you truly want? Not what is expected of you, not what feels easy, but what feels *right*. Take a deep breath. Allow yourself to sink into that question and sit with its weight.

This card speaks of alignment—not just with others but within yourself. Are your actions aligned with your deepest truths? Sometimes, we drift away from our inner compass to please others or avoid conflict, but The Lovers urge you to reconnect. When your heart and mind are in agreement, you move through life with greater ease, attracting relationships, opportunities, and experiences that nurture you. Ask yourself: Where am I in alignment? What do I need to walk away from right now?

My spirit guides are talking about how you may be being 'too patient' with someone right now, and perhaps there has been someone in your life who has not been honest and perhaps has withheld some things from you, almost like 'being kissed with a lie' but what they don't see is how by doing that they will hurt you even more in the process!

If your question is mostly around relationships, then The Lovers card holds special meaning. They may represent a profound connection, one that inspires growth and self-reflection. Yet, they also remind you that relationships thrive only when there is honesty, mutual respect, and a balance of give and take. Reflect on your partnerships: Are they nourishing, or do they deplete you? Are you showing up authentically, and are those around you doing the same?

The Lovers also carry a sacred reminder about self-love. You cannot give to others from an empty cup, nor can you fully embrace love from another if you deny it to yourself. The card gently asks you to nurture your relationship with yourself. Celebrate your strengths, forgive your flaws, and make peace with your past. When you honor who you are, you radiate a magnetism that draws healthy, meaningful connections into your life.

At its core, The Lovers is about choice. Every decision you make today will ripple into your future. The card encourages you to pause and reflect: Are you choosing out of fear or love? Out of habit or intention? Trust that your heart knows the way forward. When you choose with integrity, even difficult decisions lead to growth.

The Lovers have appeared because the universe believes in your ability to align with your highest good. Step forward with trust in your heart, knowing that the choices you make today will shape a path that feels truer, brighter, and more deeply connected to the essence of who you are.

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